Legislation Assembly Democrats Troy Singleton, Pamela Lampitt, Gary Schaer, Benjie Wimberly and Carmelo Garcia sponsored to develop a "Responsible Fatherhood Initiative" in New Jersey geared toward promoting the positive involvement of both parents in their children's lives gained final legislative approval from the Assembly by a vote of 42-28-2 on Monday.
"There are many different factors that might inhibit a father's involvement in his child's life," said Singleton (D-Burlington). "Whether it's a strain in the relationship with a child's mother, somebody who never had a positive male role model in their life as a child, or simply somebody who hasn't learned to take responsibility, the goal of this initiative is to promote positive interactions between fathers and their children and identify obstacles that impede or prevent their involvement in the lives of their children."
The bill (A-945) would establish a 21-member New Jersey Council on Responsible Fatherhood in the Department of Children and Families in order to promote the participation of both parents in the lives of their children, identify needs and priorities relating to fatherhood programs in the state and support the contributions each parent brings to the family unit.
According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, about half of all children spend some part of their life apart from one or both of their parents, and most often the parent who does not live with the child is the father. The laws governing parental relationships are the responsibility of the state, but the federal government does provide funding for, among other things, responsible fatherhood grants for activities such as counseling, mentoring, marriage education, enhancing relationship skills, parenting and fostering economic stability.
"There are a number of factors that may impact a father's ability or willingness to participate in his child's life," said Lampitt (D-Camden/Burlington). "For those who grew up without a positive male role model, things like counseling and mentoring can make all the difference and hopefully produce happier, more well-adjusted children."
"Fatherhood is one of the greatest responsibilities a person can have, and it is certainly not one to be taken lightly," said Schaer (D-Bergen/Passaic). "Whenever fathers can be encouraged and supported to develop and maintain more meaningful relationships with their children, the outcome can only result in benefits to our society."
"This is not a responsibility that can be forced, but it is one that can be learned if a father is willing," said Wimberly (D-Bergen/Passaic). "We see more and more young fathers who grew up without somebody to model this role for them. As a father of four sons with a very hectic schedule, I still find the time to be at their football, baseball, basketball, parent-teacher conferences and other activities. I believe that with some help and guidance, more men can mature into a positive influence in their child's life."
"I know first-hand that being a father is the most rewarding experience that a man can have in his life, but unfortunately there are men who have a hard time stepping into that role," said Garcia (D-Hudson). "By facilitating fatherhood and emphasizing its importance, New Jersey can take action to build stronger families and a better future for our state."
To that end, the bill directs the council to apply for available grant money from the federal government, private foundations or other sources, which may be available for programs related to responsible fatherhood and, in turn, provide grants to community-based organizations within New Jersey to establish, expand or improve fatherhood programs
The bill requires the council to: direct the development and implementation of a Responsible Fatherhood Initiative; develop a comprehensive plan that identifies the needs and priorities relating to fatherhood programs in the state and promotes the positive involvement of fathers in their children's lives; serve as an information and resource center for data and information on fatherhood programs; review the programs, policies, and initiatives of various state departments and community-based organizations that concern responsible fatherhood, and make recommendations to the departments and organizations on ways to better coordinate and improve the effectiveness of their programs, policies and initiatives.
The initiative would be geared toward children whose families have or are receiving public assistance but shall not exclude any other population of children who may benefit from the programs or services offered by the initiative. The initiative shall be responsible for the development of: a public awareness campaign; an information and support network for fathers trying to foster relationships with their children; and plans to identify and promote methods that reduce the negative outcomes experienced by children affected by divorce, legal separation and custody and visitation disputes.
Finally, the bill requires the council to report to the governor and the legislature annually on the activities of the council and its findings and recommendations regarding the coordination and effectiveness of state programs, policies and initiatives concerning responsible fatherhood.
The measure now heads to the governor's desk.